Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Did Adam love Eve?

Answer: Of Course!

Genesis 3:18-25
18.Then the LORD God said, "It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him."
19.Now out of the ground the LORD God had formed every beast of the field and every bird of the heavens and brought them to the man to see what he would call them. And whatever the man called every living creature, that was its name.
20.The man gave names to all livestock and to the birds of the heavens and to every beast of the field. But for Adam there was not found a helper fit for him.
21.So the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon the man, and while he slept took one of his ribs and closed up its place with flesh.
22.And the rib that the LORD God had taken from the man he made into a woman and brought her to the man.
23Then the man said,

"This at last is bone of my bones
and flesh of my flesh;
she shall be called Woman,
because she was taken out of Man."

24.Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.
25.And the man and his wife were both naked and were not ashamed.


God made Eve for Adam.
The perfect gift for a man with no human companion.
You'll see by what it says in verse 18, that God had planned this little surprise for Adam perfectly.
First, He says "I will make a helper fit for him". So you see, He planned to make Eve. Secondly, in verse 19, he makes every animal and brings them to Adam. This is to show and familiarize Adam with every animal, their strengths and beauties.
In verse 20, God reveals his hidden purpose in giving Adam this task, it's to show him that Yes, these are glorious and beautiful creatures, but none of them are suitable to be a companion to him. This is for closure, so to speak, So that in Verse 22, when he God brings Eve to him, he knows that she is incomparable in beauty and in mind to any other creature God had made.
This is to avoid confusion, I believe. To refute any thought that Adam would be better off with a animal to serve him, that no one might think that she was "bad for him".

Eve was not only the first human being that Adam saw, she was also female, handmade(literally) specifically for him, and she was naked. When Adam first sees her, he sings a joyful song about her.
he says;
"This at last is bone of my bones
and flesh of my flesh;
she shall be called Woman,
because she was taken out of Man."

He says "this at last..." because directly before that, he had just looked at every animal that God had made, and there was no suitable wife found for him. This at last! After going through every creature God had made, Finally there was a helper for him. Finally, A WIFE!
Make no mistake. Verse 23 is not an expression of sorrow, nor of resentment, nor of coldness, this is pure and right joy. Finally, a companion. Finally, a wife.


Not only did Adam love her, but he was proud of her. Made from a part of him, how could he not be proud? Not just was she made for him, but she was beautiful. Beautiful in every way. The prototype of women. Adam could be proud of her for these reasons:

1. He had the first woman.
2. She was physically perfect, humanly speaking.
3. She was made for him.
4. She was made from him.
5. She was the most beautiful woman ever to be created past, present and future.

Adam had never seen another woman before. He had no reason to think that he could do better than Eve, no reason to think that there was another, more beautiful woman that he could choose from. She was his standard of beauty. And she was beautiful.

Then End.

15 comments:

  1. Nice random posting after tonight's youth group Jasper...lol
    =)

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  2. Believe me, Talitha, this is not random.
    Youth group involved me wanting to ask questions about this, but not trusting the responses I knew would come.
    I was shocked myself, that what I was thinking of, and the verses that pertained to my thoughts, were the verses that we would read tonight.

    Of randomness;
    God is a god of order, not of chaos or randomness. Hence, true randomness or chaos can only be attributed to Satan.

    So, I believe that nothing is random. Everything has a cause or a reason.
    It's a good idea to think of things in this way; what is the purpose, what is the reason?
    It helps in thought, word and behaviour.

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  3. "...and she was naked."
    I heart that part of your post. =) Also I agree. Did writing this help you better understand your own thoughts?

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  4. not really.
    I understood this the same before as I do now..

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  5. Jasper?
    I don't doubt Adam's attraction to Eve. But you offer no evidence to show that he loved her. Physical attraction is not the same as love. And pride--he had no other woman to compare Eve to, no other relationship to compare his... What basis did he have for being proud of Eve? I'm not saying that he wasn't proud of her. I think it's very reasonable to assume that he would be proud of her existence because she was the first woman, hand-crafted for him, beautiful, smart, the only other creature alive made in the image of God specifically FOR HIM. Yes, he had reason to be proud of her. Or rather, perhaps, to admire her. But I see no evidence for him being in love with her, or guiding her... You know the rest of my thoughts.

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  6. I offer no "evidence" except that of the Holy word of God;
    Genesis 1:27
    "So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them."
    but taking what we know about God from the bible, about God being a loving God, and indeed, God BEING love itself, leading to God making Adam in HIS OWN image, that is to say, the image of the one true God who was himself love personified. Adam DID love Eve.
    There.
    That should leave you with no other option than to concede that Adam LOVED Eve.

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  7. Also, The fact that for him to resent or hate her, however slightly, would have been a sin. Sin not having entered the world by this time, that theory cannot stand.

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  8. That is not irrefutable evidence. That is evidence that Adam has the ability to love, more than any other creature--to love like God loves his children--but it's not evidence that Adam exercised that ability. Adam was created good, but not perfect. Just because he was able to love Eve, doesn't mean he did. God as love does not love everything just because he is love. Likewise, Adam, an earthly personification of God and God's love, does not love everything nor does he have to.

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  9. Ok, so perhaps he didn't hate or resent her. I don't think he showed her any partiality, aside from acknowledging her as superior to the other creatures and yes, a gift from God.

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  10. But it IS irrefutable evidence...
    Your point was invalid in that God IS love, as I said, and Adam was created in His image.
    To clarify, God isn't only all powerful and "has the ability" to love. He is love, and as love, He LOVES. Therefore, Adam was made in the image of God, who is love(and loves), and though God loves, Adam doesn't have to?
    Are you trying to tell me that Adam, in a sinless world was not required to love when WE(!), in a sinful world, ARE required to love?

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  11. I guess you could even say that God is required to love, because He, being love, would be inconsistant if he did NOT love. And we know that OUR God is unchangeable, consistant in every way. That means always.

    Who is He accountable to?
    No one.
    There is NO higher power that he must answer to.
    That means that nothing and no one can make Him change.

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  12. I suppose then that yes, that's what I'm saying. Jasper, I just don't see where God requires Adam to love his wife. God directs NOTHING specific of Adam about his wife except that I see a very clear and safe inference that God wants Adam to watch and care for his wife as he watches and cares for the Garden. But that doesn't include love. And I think you're confusing your versions of love. We are called to love everyone in a brotherly-Christian sense, but not in a romantic sense. Perhaps, yes, Adam WAS commanded to love Eve simply because he lived in a sinless world, and in a sinless world there is nothing to not love. But Christian-love is not the same as romantic, marriageable-love. And I don't think that God commanded Adam to love his wife as a wife, only to love her in general.

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  13. but you're missing the point.. you're severing regular ol' love from romantic love, and this is before the fall.
    so, love is not divided into categories, and in true love, it's a huge amount of regular love just brought a little further.. It's not a separate thing, it's not that different.

    I have no difficulty believing that before the fall, when two people who were made for each other and were completely naked, they had no trouble in figuring out that what they saw caused much physical attraction.
    Pre-fall, I suspect that God created physical attraction to be a bigger part of genuine love than it is now, where we separate it from "regular" love. Pre fall, Love was not diluted or polluted like it is now. Was love the same before sin entered the world? I don't think so.


    "I see a very clear and safe inference that God wants Adam to watch and care for his wife as he watches and cares for the Garden."
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    "I just don't see where God requires Adam to love his wife."

    Do you realize how silly you sound?
    You make assumptions and base your arguments on inference, but you won't accept that someone else's inference, however logical and base-able on scripture, might be right?
    You're being a hypocrite.

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  14. Oi, Jas - don't be saying someone else is inconsistent unless you want a lonely blog...

    I was thinking: In the new testament, God calls every man to love his wife, and God doesn't change. Would that have been an innovation?

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  15. I think it's obvious that Adam loved Eve because he was willing to disobey God just to remain with her after she was deceived. He gave up his life by eating the forbidden fruit even though he wasn't deceived (1 Tim 2:14). Adam practiced sacrificial love for Eve.

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